BEYOND THOSE WORDS

BEYOND THOSE WORDS

On July 4, 1776, our founding fathers of the Continental Congress signed the "Declaration of Independence" that challenged the greatest power of the world to a fight.  At the core of the fight were certain "words" that were unheard of at the time of monarchies and tyrants.  

Those words "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness" set the stage for an arduous struggle that lasted several years with much loss of life and property.  At the end of the war with England, freedom was born, and the definition and application of those words was just beginning. 

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THE SECRET OF NEVER LOSING ANOTHER GAME OF TENNIS

THE SECRET OF NEVER LOSING ANOTHER GAME OF TENNIS

Reading the advertisements in the back of a tennis magazine, an advertisement caught a young man's attention: "The Secret of Never Losing Another Game in Tennis," offered by the only "undefeated" tennis player alive.  

"This could be the answer I have been looking for!" he said to himself.  "Once I have the secret, I can stop reading all these magazines for best practices, stop working out each day, and stop my special high protein and low carbohydrate diet."

He quickly completed the application form, wrote out a check for $99.95, and placed both the application and check into an envelope. 

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THE TELEPHONE GAME

THE TELEPHONE GAME

Some time ago when I was teaching a college class on responsible leadership, I asked the class to play the "Telephone Game."  The "Telephone Game" is a classic communication game in which the person in the front of the room is given a short phrase to remember and then whispers the phrase into the ear of the person next to them. The process continues until the phrase reaches the last person in the room.  The phrase I used that day was, "Great teams become great when each team member does more than their role, and each team member delivers their absolute best." 

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HOW DO WE RESPOND? FIFTEEN YEARS LATER.

HOW DO WE RESPOND? FIFTEEN YEARS LATER.

[Today, September 11, 2016, marks the fifteenth anniversary of the terrorist act on the World Trade Center, at the Pentagon, and in a field in Pennsylvania which took the lives of over 3,000 innocent people.  Fifteen years ago, I wrote the following "Friday Story" in an effort to express the many elements of sorrow, fear, and hope that earmarked that tragic day. Today, we still have many of those elements still with us, and most likely they will always be our companions. However, it is hope that we hold onto most dearly in our efforts to comfort the wounded and bring peace to those who continue to suffer fifteen years later.]

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WELCOME TO OUR COMPANY

WELCOME TO OUR COMPANY

[It's your first day on the job.  After completing the necessary HR paperwork, you gather in a large conference room with other new employees.  You find a seat, reshuffle your paperwork, and say hello to the person next to you. You take out your new company notebook and begin to write some notes, when someone in the front of the room interrupts your thoughts to make an announcement that the President of the company has arrived.  She would like to welcome you to the company and say a few words on leadership.]

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DAILY ROUNDS

DAILY ROUNDS

Making her daily rounds at the hospital one morning and coming into patient room 1010 on the Cardiac Ward, Dr. Mary Nelson is startled as a patient suddenly wakes up and shouts -  

"Who are you?"

"Good morning, why my name is Dr. Mary Nelson.  I am your attending physician."

"No, I mean who really are you?"

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THOSE WORDS

THOSE WORDS

On July 4, 1776, the founding fathers of the Continental Congress wrote words that challenged the greatest power of the world to take notice. Embodied within the Declaration of Independence, words referred to as inalienable rights - Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness - defined freedom and set the stage for a great struggle against tyranny. The subsequent years, through much loss in life and property, the United States of America won its freedom and shifted its attention to the meaning and application of those words.

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WHEN TRAGEDY STRIKES

WHEN TRAGEDY STRIKES

Life places people, events, stories, triumphs, and tragedies in our path to see how we will react or respond to such things.  Sometimes, we adjust the path of our lives due to certain events and set off in a different direction. These "turning points" or milestones in our lives can be minor or be complete transformations.  While other times, we come across people, events, stories, triumphs, and tragedies, and we keep on going; not caring to look back or reflecting on what has just passed us by.

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IT'S A MATTER OF TRUST

IT'S A MATTER OF TRUST

On July 20, 2015, The Wall Street Journal reported the disappointing quarterly results for Whole Foods Markets, a natural-foods grocer.  Sales at established sores rose 1.3% in the three months ending July 5 - its weakest growth since 2003 (WSJ, 7/30/15, p. B1). The main explanation for the modest sales growth was the increasing competition from mainstream retailers that are now stocking local and organic food.  However, pointing the finger at increasing competition may be just masking the real reason for the modest sales growth at Whole Foods.

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PLANT TREES

PLANT TREES

There is this place; a special place.

A place where nature is celebrated, trees grow strong and tall, and birds rejoice with each sunrise.

A place where dreams are formed in morning's midst, planted in the hearts and minds of a few, a thousand, and then into the millions.

People come to this place year after year. They play.  They laugh. They learn. They fall in love with each other as they embrace nature's many gifts which inspire their souls and warm their hearts.

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MOVING DAY

MOVING DAY

It's 5:30 in the morning.  My wife and I are standing at the end of our driveway with our arms around each other's waists. 

"We are really going to miss them."
 
"Yes, we are."
 
"We couldn't ask for better neighbors and better friends."
 
"Yes, it is hard to imagine they will be gone soon."
 
Just then the engine of the moving van roars to life, headlights come on and the moving van slowly backs out of the driveway across the street from our home. 

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ADDITION BY SUBTRACTION

ADDITION BY SUBTRACTION

There is not a day that goes by that most people do not want more - more money, more power, more time, more influence, more control, more food, more fun, more happiness, more stuff.  We just want more. Then there are those days, when enough is enough and all the "stuff" we have accumulated, the emotional baggage we carry around with us, is overwhelming and we just want all of it to go away.

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AROUND THE CAMPFIRE

Some time ago, a group of men and women gathered around a campfire. They were at the end of the day at a company sponsored off-site meeting focusing on team building. As the fire roared, one man pulled aside another and starting talking about the company and the performance of variance divisions.
 
"Why do you and your team work so hard in Section B? Honestly, you are ruining it for the rest of us."
 
"What do you mean?"
 
"Look, our company has made budget for the past five years. In fact, we have maxed out bonuses for four of the last five years. You guys in Section B have got to relax, enjoy life and don't work so hard."
 
"True, we have made budget for the past five years and have made some great bonuses. However, we feel that is not good enough. Competition is catching up and the market is becoming saturated. If we don't come up with some great new product ideas and reduce our costs, I think Section A, your Section, is going to be in trouble."
 
"Hey, what do you mean? The big boss loves us. He came from Section A."
 
"That's right, but that was years ago. Section A is not what is used to be. You guys have gotten lazy. Many of you come in late, and leave early. Your costs are rising, and word is that many of you are "retired in place."
 
"Hey, it's our right. We are entitled to our jobs. We look out for each other. We get the job done. What you need is to transfer to Section A, and then you would see the truth."
 
The other worker in Section B was quiet for a time. He rose from his seat and picked up a long fire prong. Then with the fire prong, he picked up a burning log and placed it with some newly cut wood near the fire and sat down.
 
"What are you doing?" said the worker from Section A.
 
The worker from Section B just stared at the log, and said nothing. Soon the log stopped burning, then smoked, and eventually went out all together.
 
"That log in the beginning is me. When I am with my team in Section B - I am alive. I am challenged. I feel great. I am more than I could possibly be. If I were to leave my team in Section B for your team in Section A, I would initially stand out like a sore thumb; like a burning log. Eventually, you would bring me down to your level, and like this log, my fire would burn out."
 
"You have got to be kidding! We are not a bunch of burned out logs in Section A!  We made the company great, and we have our rights!"
 
"You can think and act the way you want, and you may be able to buy enough time to retire from Section A in a couple years. But listen to this and listen well. At the end of the week, you and I will take home a paycheck that has been paid by, not our company, but by our customers. If we don't improve the quality of their lives, if we don't give them a reason to come back, we will be out of business. And you, my friend, will be out of a job."
 
"Once again, you are exaggerating."
 
"Okay, look at it this way. You take home a paycheck each week. I take home a paycheck as well. But my paycheck is different from yours"
 
"What do you mean? You can't possibly make more than I do?"
 
"I don't know that, but what I do know is that I take home with my paycheck something extra. I take home a sense of pride and accomplishment. I take home purpose and meaning. I take home the fact that we have chosen ‘great’ over good, and that has made all the difference to me and my fellow team members."
 
At this moment, everything became very silent. Then a loud round of applause and cheers rose up, as the two men realized all around the campfire heard their conversation.
 
Until Next Friday,    

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THE 2014 DO-IT-YOURSELF RESOLUTION KIT

THE 2014 DO-IT-YOURSELF RESOLUTION KIT

Waking up on New Year's Day morning, people will greet the new year in various states of readiness (largely depending on what occurred the night before). Many will take advantage of the holiday and sleep well into the morning. Others will wake up early to get ready for another day of company, football, and more food. And some will take the time to make their 2014 New Year's Resolutions.

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THE TENNIS HAT

THE TENNIS HAT

"Hey, where's my hat?"  I asked my wife.
 
"What hat?" my wife responded.
 
"My hat for tennis.  I have a match today, and I need my hat!"  I exclaimed.
 
"Look in your tennis bag, or in the closet where you throw everything!” she exclaimed back.
 
"Hey, I found it where you left it... in my tennis bag,” I responded sarcastically.
 

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THE MAN IN THE RED BANDANA

THE MAN IN THE RED BANDANA

After the horrific events of 9/11, The New York Times published survivor's accounts of the South Tower of the World Trade Center. Many survivors spoke of some angel, some young man coming out of the smoke and fire on 104th floor wearing a red bandana around his face, and yelling in a calm and commanding voice,
 
"Follow me. I found the staircase. If you can help someone else, then help them."

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LEVEL 64

LEVEL 64

"I can't seem to pass Level 64!” exclaimed my wife for what seemed like the twentieth time.  

"It's just so frustrating.  Sheryl is on Level 70.  How is she doing it?" my wife continued.
 
"Can't help you, JoMarie.  I don't know what you are talking about.  Ask Lauren.  I think she is on Level 150 or something." I  said, as I shook my head and left the room.

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THE LAST TIME

THE LAST TIME

If I knew it was the last time I would see you, I would have I stayed longer by your side;

If I knew it was the last time I would talk with you, I would have listened more and asked better questions;

If I knew it was the last time I would laugh with you, I would have laughed harder and louder.

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EMBRACING TIME

EMBRACING TIME

While on vacation, I went on a bike ride with my four-year-old daughter, Veronica. With her riding in a wheeled buggy attached to my bike, we rode the local bike trails. 
 
It was a beautiful day. The temperature was cool, the sun bright, and a slight warm breeze embraced us during our ride.

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MAKING THE RIGHT CALL

MAKING THE RIGHT CALL

On the morning of January 24, 2013, Kerry Drake was flying home to see his dying mother. The last-minute flight would get him there in time to see his mother only if the entire schedule was on time, and allowed a 40-minute connection. 
 
While flying on the first flight segment, Kerry received an update from the airline captain that the flight would arrive late. He realized at that point, he would miss his connecting flight and would not be able to make it to his mother's side in time. Kerry, sitting in his airline seat, started to cry uncontrollably. 

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